Black Friday 2021

November 22, 2021

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It’s almost Black Friday. It’s all very exciting, especially because it’s my first time 😉

I have two most excellent offers for your consideration.

Offer #1: Pay What You Choose Access to Keep It Casual LIVE December 1st – 6th

First up, I was puzzling over how to create a low-commitment, no/low cost offer that would set you up for some delightfully slutty success in 2022. And I think I cracked it.

For 6 days, you can join me LIVE at a daily 40-minute session where we will cover how to use online dating for hookups and friends with benefits.

This curriculum has been designed for single or non-monogamous people who want to explore casual relationships. All genders and orientations welcome!

Plus I’m offering Keep It Casual LIVE on a Pay-What-You-Choose basis (and €0 is a valid choice).

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In just 40 minutes a day, you’ll learn how to:

<img draggable= Follow a reliable process to organize hookups using online dating platforms

<img draggable= Set up your first ever hookup, one night stand, or friend with benefits 

<img draggable= Confidently ask someone for a hookup

<img draggable= Ask existing friends to become friends with benefits

<img draggable= Bring kindness, compassion, and connectedness to casual encounters

<img draggable= Experience pleasure and orgasm during casual encounters

<img draggable= End things gracefully and with kindness with your casual partners

Keep It Casual LIVE will take place December 1st – 6th at 9am California / 12pm New York / 5pm UK / 6pm Germany / 7pm Lithuania. Find your local time zone here.

Offer #2: Join the 2022 Waitlist to Lock in 2021 Pricing

Several things are changing in 2022, one of the most significant being that 1:1 coaching journeys will become considerably more expensive.

If you know you want to dive deep and transform your experiences of dating, sex, and relationships, from now through midnight on Cyber Monday, you can get yourself on the 2022 Waitlist by making a €500 deposit. You lock in 2021 pricing so long as you initiate the coaching journey no later than April 30, 2022.

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If you want in, Save Your Spot here.


In the spirit of extraordinary deals on wonderful, sexy things, I also wanted to share with you a few of the best Black Friday offers from the wider world. I’ll update this post as more offers are released over the coming days.

Getting Conscious with Kink – 6 Classes Online Journey

I have known Seani Love since 2016, when he came to teach Getting Conscious with Kink in person in Warsaw, Poland. Last year, Seani converted this workshop into an online experience and invited an extraordinary team to cultivate the experience with him. Having attended this workshop both live in person and virtually online, I recommend learning from Seani if you want to incorporate Conscious Kink into your life.

What’s the deal?

Sign up for Getting Conscious with Kink and use the code DIGNIFIEDHEDONIST for 30% off.

Organic Loven – Body Safe, Eco Friendly, Sex Positive Emporium

Organic Loven is run by the lovely sex goddess Taylor Sparks with a commitment to product quality that is pretty well unmatched. Plus she’s a real person who has built everything you see on that website from the ground up. Her curation is fantastic.

What’s the deal?

Use the code DIGNIFIEDHEDONIST for 10% off your order. Taylor can send you customized product suggestions based on your answers to a questionnaire, or you can try out my general recommendations:

Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo – Hot Octopuss is the world’s first, and I would argue best, guybrator. Even though it’s primarily a male sex toy, the Pulse III duo includes a stimulator on top and soft vibrating underside that can be controlled from the outside by using an independent remote for exciting couple’s play.

Liberator Wedge – You might think… huh? How’s this a sex toy? Trust me – adding this 27 degree angle to your sex play is a game changer, regardless of your gender or the genitals you bring to the experience. A little goes a long way to increasing comfort, reducing stress on the body, and allowing for new sensations.

Crave Vesper Vibrating Necklace – This is the most discreet way to make sure you’ve got an excellent vibrator with you when you head out on dates. Sleek, beautiful, surprisingly powerful, and quiet. Makes a classy gift for a friend, too.

Satisfyer Pro Traveler Rechargeable – I love the Satisfyer for the two fold affordability and reliability when it comes to orgasmic bliss. One of the best clitoral toys out there, the Satisfyer uses pulsing air to create a sensation uncannily like a skilled and feather-light tongue.

Dipsea – Professionally Produced, Sex Positive, Inclusive Sexy Audio Stories

The team at Dipsea have been hard at work over the last several years amassing a catalogue of some of the best audio erotica available anywhere. All of their stories are professionally voice acted and produced. The audio erotica at Dipsea is created to be relatable, feminist, and celebratory of sexuality.

What’s the deal?

Head over to this link for a 1 week free trial of Dipsea. If you love it, you will also get 25% off an annual subscription. Put another way, you can get 53 weeks of hot content for less than dinner for two at a restaurant.

Erika Lust – Sex Positive Porn

I regularly recommend Erika Lust’s productions to my clients, one of the main reasons being her porn is some of the only porn that demonstrates consent as a part of the porn itself. 

What’s the deal?

On Friday November 26th (Black Friday) only, you can get 30% off of downloads in the Erika Lust shop. If you’re overwhelmed with choice, here are 3 films I recommend:

An Appointment with My Master (2015) – This short film is hot and it’s also a brilliant demonstration of how sexy and powerful consent is as part of sexual play. This films is a great inspiration for how you can weave asking throughout your encounters.

Carne (2016) – This short film is a brilliant blend of funny and sexy, bringing fantasy to life. There’s plenty to be said about the intersection of food and sex, though why would I say it when you could just check out Carne instead?

All Bodies Deserve Pleasure Compilation (2021) – I love this collection for showcasing a wide variety of body types that are either underrepresented in porn or often fetishised in dehumanizing ways. This collection turns this notion on its head and presents humanity in all of its carnal, hedonistic glory. The scene between the two older people is one of my favorites.

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