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Gaslighting is a very dangerous form of psychological abuse. Gaslighting can be extremely subtle and may by its very nature cause the victim to distrust their judgement. Combined with the fact that abusers often appear charming to people outside the relationship, this may cause the victim to truly believe they are imagining the abuse and remain silent.
...Have you ever caught yourself imagining that, if you were only more confident with women, you’d feel so much better? It’s tempting to focus on confidence, given the people we know that experience genuine happiness all seem to have it. The thing is, you don’t really want to know how you can be more confident when you type “how to be more confident with women” into Google late at night. You’re really asking about something else.
...Breakups are an unavoidable part of dating and relationships. Ending a dating ‘thing’ is particularly challenge, especially with so many interactions happening online or over text. Regardless of your background and personal experiences, you probably know break-ups can suck. Whenever feelings (and the potential for hurting them) are involved, things can get messy. Dealing with break-ups gracefully (no matter which side you’re on) takes a lot of skill and practice.
...Maybe you’re already familiar with what makes you great in bed and feel confident about your skills. So, what now? How do you let potential lovers know about this? As simply saying so isn’t an option, what are alternative ways of signaling that you’re great in bed? Let’s look at 8 major signs to get a good read on a man’s sexual potential.
...“I’m busy” always means one of two things: #1: I’m actually, genuinely, really busy #2: You are not a priority for me. You don’t need to know which of these two is in play with the person you’ve been seeing, because the same response works equally well. Here’s the exact script to use if you’ve suggested two meetings and been met with “I’m busy” both times.
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