Death Grip – difficulty experiencing orgasm during partner sex due to using a tight grip during masturbation – is an extremely common challenge faced by men. But, most online resources about how to resolve this issue are sex-negative and erotophobic. Instead of demonizing masturbation and porn, a more effective approach to death grip involves understanding why it happens in the first place, and working with your body in intentional ways to increase your ability to feel subtle sensations.