Become a Dignified Hedonist and Change the World with Pleasure 

Pleasurable life transformations brought to you by Certified Sex Coach Sarah Martin and co-conspirators.

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It's simpler than you think to create connections that prioritize sex and pleasure. What's more, you can have lots of sex with lots people in a way that's caring, compassionate, and connected, even if just for one night. That's because none of this is innate - instead, it involves mastering a counterintuitive set of skills that I guarantee you never learned in school. Are you ready for the adventure to begin?

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Hi, I'm Sarah

I guide horny people into a world of pleasure and delight.

I'm the creator of the Dignified Hedonist framework. Everything you'll find here is the result of over 6 years of 1:1 client work. 

Since qualifying as a Certified Sex Coach in 2016, I've helped my clients...

  • Lose their virginity in a way that felt fun and relaxed
  • Find connected, pleasurable hookups and friends with benefits
  • Experience the thrill of authentic sexual self-expression
  • Learn how to be more dominant in the bedroom
  • Feel calm, relaxed, and confident as a sexual being

I can help you, too.


When I started working with Sarah, I hadn't been on a single date in my life and had no idea how would I even get one. By the end of our work, I've found myself routinely going on more dates in a single week than during the 10 years prior, combined, and being a rejector more often than a rejectee.

Matthew*, 27

Mathematician, poland

I went to Sarah's workshop and less then a month later, I've found my girlfriend. Since I've started going to Sarah's events, I've learned a lot about sexuality, consent and communication and slowly but surely, started applying all of that wonderful knowledge to my own personal life. 

Vernon*, 24

Student, poland

My confidence level is quite high after a long time. I have never been so confident around women frankly. It feels so much simpler and easier. 

I even had a meeting with my manager's manager today and he told me he has never seen me so confident before!

Krish*, 35

logistics, india

Sarah taught me dating methods which are efficient, but at the same time - decent, with care for the other side. E.g. how to communicate directly about sexual or romantic interaction, in a clear way, without being needy or creepy.

Most importantly - it works! I got a few respectful NOes and, well, a few YESes.

Peter*, 34

Data Scientist, poland

Sarah is normal. You can just talk to her, it won't be intimidating, it won't be awkward. She has this incredible skill of explaining feelings stuff in a logical, almost mathematical way.

She translates emotional to geeky. Sheldon Cooper would get laid in no time after having the talk with Sarah.

Connor*, 31

Doctor, germany

After Elite Coaching, I am literally a different person. I know this sounds like hyperbole, but my friends noticed the change. Even I don't recognise myself sometimes. Life has become effortless. I navigate the world with a sense of agency. I am comfortable in  social situations and no longer care what other people think. It's liberating.

Kamal*, 44

Doctor, UK

*Names and images changed to preserve client confidentiality. Their words are real.