Hey There, Hedonist
What are you looking for?
One Delicious Personal Growth Journey. Sexual Confidence in 3 Months
The only elite dating coaching program for creating relationships that ethically prioritize sex and pleasure.
Recently had a "Fuck It" moment?
If you're done with staying stuck and ready to do something different, Elite Coaching will take you further than you thought possible in your sex and relationship life.
Who it's for
What Elite Coaching Can Do
These are some of the concrete results experienced by lovers like you
Lose Your Virginity
Regardless of whether you're in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond.
Find Hookups and FWBs
In a way that's caring, compassionate, and connected. Make casual sex fun!
Find a Partner
Even if you feel clueless and have no idea how people do this.
More Dates
And more second dates. Become a rejector more often than a rejectee.
Flirt with Confidence
In a style that feels authentic and fun for you. Release your pent up playfulness.
Cultivate Sexual Power
Boldly ask for what you want. Become more dominant in the bedroom. Initiate more.
When I started working with Sarah, I hadn't been on a single date in my life and had no idea how would I even get one. By the end of our work, I've found myself routinely going on more dates in a single week than during the 10 years prior, combined, and being a rejector more often than a rejectee.
Matthew*, 27
Mathematician
I went to Sarah's workshop and less then a month later, I've found my girlfriend. Since I've started going to Sarah's events, I've learned a lot about sexuality, consent and communication and slowly but surely, started applying all of that wonderful knowledge to my own personal life.
Vernon*, 24
Student
My confidence level is quite high after a long time. I have never been so confident around women frankly. It feels so much simpler and easier.
I even had a meeting with my manager's manager today and he told me he has never seen me so confident before!
Krish*, 35
logistics
*Names and images changed to preserve client confidentiality. Their words are real.
How it Works
Elite coaching is a combination of sex education, actionable strategy, accountability, and unwavering support. It's about bringing out the best of who you are and getting you results.
Intentional Commitment
By intentionally committing your time, energy, and focus to the process, your life will change pretty radically.
Deliberate Action
Through talk-based sessions and missions between sessions, you will take only the necessary action to move forward.
Proven Framework
The Dignified Hedonist framework guides the coaching journey through a series of targeted sessions and action-based missions.
The Dignified Hedonist Framework
Your Coach
Hi, I'm Sarah
I guide horny people into a world of pleasure and delight using a proven framework that gets results.
I've helped my clients...
I can help you, too.
What's Included
Sessions
Every two weeks, we meet for targeted coaching sessions. Each session lasts 75 minutes, so there's no rush. You have time to gather your thoughts and ask your questions.
Missions
Before your first session, and after every session, you receive a mission packet. Missions include activities and practices that strengthen your learning, generate reflection, and encourage action!
Support
You have direct access to the one and only Sarah Martin for support between session via email and WhatsApp.
Surprises
As an Elite Coaching client, you get access to bonuses and you receive gifts from me. The surprises you receive are unique to you!
Apply Now
To apply to the Elite Coaching program, pick a time below. We'll meet for 30 minutes and dig into what you want out of coaching and check if we're a good fit. After you select a time, you'll be prompted to complete an application form. You must submit the application form before your call. If you find you need more time, shoot me an email and I'll send it to you in a Google doc.
Sarah taught me dating methods which are efficient, but at the same time - decent, with care for the other side. E.g. how to communicate directly about sexual or romantic interaction, in a clear way, without being needy or creepy.
Most importantly - it works! I got a few respectful NOes and, well, a few YESes.
Peter*, 32
Data Scientist
Sarah is normal. You can just talk to her, it won't be intimidating, it won't be awkward. She has this incredible skill of explaining feelings stuff in a logical, almost mathematical way.
She translates emotional to geeky. Sheldon Cooper would get laid in no time after having the talk with Sarah.
Connor*, 31
Medical Doctor
*Names and images changed to preserve client confidentiality. Their words are real.
faq
Elite Coaching journeys last for 3 months. You need 3-5 hours each week to dedicate to this process. It’s better to take consistent action (i.e. an hour a day) than to cram right before 1:1 sessions.
Here's what's included in the program:
- An extensive intake mission before our first session, so that we hit the ground running
- A 75 minute 1:1 coaching session every other week
- A recording of each session, if you desire
- A mission assigned after every session to keep you actively learning and growing
- Email and WhatsApp support
- Customized resource recommendations
- Gifts to support you and because gifts are awesome
We work together online. You can be anywhere.
You book in your sessions using an online scheduling tool to avoid that email back and forth dance thing.
I am sensitive to the spectrum of data privacy needs, and will tailor my work with you to take these into account.
We can work together using traditional email and Zoom video conferencing, alternately we can use Signal and JitsiMeet. It is also possible to work with me in person.
What you share with me is not shared with anyone else.
During your application call, we can discuss your privacy preferences in as much detail as needed to assure your comfort.
You don’t need any dating, relationship, or partner sex experience to enroll in Elite Coaching.
No. Elite Coaching is a significant commitment on both our parts. Places are limited in order to deliver a high-touch, elite experience.
Because I only want to work with people I can help get extraordinary results.
Because this isn’t for everyone and time is precious.
I don’t want you to enter this program if it's not a good fit. I don’t want this to be an experience of disappointment.
Applying to work with me is straightforward:
- Fill out the application form.
- Book a time for a free 30 minute call with me.
- This call is your chance to ask any and all questions you have and for us to explore your desires.
- I will tell you if you are not a fit, or if you are not a fit at this time. It’s in neither of our interests for you to participate if it will not benefit you.
Apart from what I share about me elsewhere, in short, I am uniquely placed to serve as your dating coach. I have a very particular set of skills.
If what you’re after is confidence in yourself as a sexual being, pleasure, and the ability to have new and rewarding experiences (be that with a life-long partner or a one night stand), all in a way that is caring, connected, and compassionate, I can deliver on that far better than other dating coaches, seduction coaches, or pickup artists ever could.
My job is to hold space for you as a sexual being, whether you have had many partners, one, or none. My role is to guide you through a proven process of discovery and skills development that others like you have been through before. My responsibility is to show up for who you are as an individual.
If you've read everything on this page and you're still uncertain, you can book a one-off Desire Audit with no ongoing commitment. The best way to learn what coaching is like is to experience it. If you decide you would like to enroll in Elite Coaching, the cost of your Desire Audit will be put towards it.
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