In a world where lacking sex education leads many men to draw most of their sexual knowledge from porn, it is sometimes impossible to avoid learning certain moves or behaviours which may seem great in porn but can actual be a huge turn off for women in real life, even with the best of intentions.

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Technological progress isn’t limited only to devices such as smartphones – it also affects the field of sexuality with every week bringing new sex-related innovations and discoveries. Although given how dynamically this field is evolving, one podcast episode is only enough to “scratch the surface”, Dr. Valeria and I decided to talk about five such

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Have you heard of the term “microcheating”? It has recently gained increasing popularity on social media and refers to a pattern of seemingly small behaviors that indicate that your partner may be excessively focused on someone else (emotionally or physically). If you’ve already encountered this term and are wondering if the specific behaviours listed as

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A few episodes ago on the Get Sex Smart podcast, Dr. Valeria and I discussed how to approach having sex when one of you is a virgin – both from the point of view of the less experienced and the more experienced partner (if you haven’t heard that episode, be sure to check it out

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Pegging is a sexual activity that can be both extremely pleasurable and very intimate for both parties involved. Unfortunately, due to the stigma of anal sex (especially when men are on the receiving end of it), a lot of people feel too unsure and anxious to explore their desires. Male gender role stress and fears

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Given the mythology surrounding virginity in our culture, it is not surprising that for many adult virgins (meaning people who are in their late 20s or older), losing their virginity ASAP is a BIG deal. The same can go for their sexual partners, who might feel pressure to make sure that that first experience is

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